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How to break through the deadlock
如何打破僵局？
In fact, being popular is familiar with interpersonal relationships in a radius of operation. In need "round" Yuantong some time, will be able to complex human relations, to obtain permits smooth life. This technology is good at being four games, and its function can be summed up in 10 words: mediate disputes, resolve contradictions, to avoid embarrassment, to break the deadlock.
From the perspective of the initiative said that a well-behaved people exposed ugly smoothed things over, take the initiative to fight for the number of field; others into a dilemma, take the initiative to rescue, to give him to find a higher level so that he won the next Taiwan.
From the passive side, self-inflicted mistakes, we should be good at fighting, to justify itself; unfortunately fall into the hands of social deadlock,breaking the ice cold market; with people is likely to produce unpleasant, the more indispensable and and "slurry" Let the other side lost little more face-saving, and maintain decent, thereby to bring the issue to settle, or even change a bad thing for good.
For style, the story rather than have a good karma resources, less surgery Reconciliation
technical support, there will probably be a "Substandard works" is only to talk about and can not achieve the illusion of, at most, like soap bubbles, like the "one round. "
1. There has not been advised of the aircraft
No conflicts and disputes, interpersonal nothing on the market can chart, and less embarrassing impasse, and need not talk about mediation and that and. Instead, as long as there is these things, it inevitably Excuse me peacemaker have to significantly significant skill. In fact, as long as there Reconciliation
surgery, no advised not to open the frame, there is no swelling on the skin’s death can not be untied.
Not finding fault in front with those who abuse quarrel disputes occurred, they will not understand the following facts: noise inextricably linked the two sides (including the provocative side), all hope that early assessments. However, because those who gather together to create the onlookers watching in the next, I would like to close all they could not. Thus, if the two sides become increasingly acute, the tone has become increasingly hard, and even the evolution of a scene for the scuffle. When the quarrel of the two sides kicked and beaten, while onlookers also do wall concept, indifferent, then it really make people feel a bit "sad."
This is not in the vehicle or the road of fighting, the presence is a workplace with colleagues Yes, this time, the two sides will want to fight: "The nature of these people are exposed out.
This shows that if you can come forward to rescue, they are grateful for your heart, certainly, as we do not Taotao continuous river, and your "human fruit" come to one place since Needless to say, when you need people to come to your rescue when people may be willing to charge the talking for you, you can also suffer from more flesh.
Be advised of this action I also do the frame, must have experience.
Not enough people fighting experience, I can not tell a good time to mediate, so the delay did not dare to come forward and left to mediate. For example, did not see the opportunity to mediate on the move, saying: "Hey, Hey, you two should have been stopped had!"
One may凶巴巴said: "What are you two? Pick a quarrel is him!"
Another may catch the tail, then, critical to say; "what should have been stopped? Overdue What does it mean?"
If only one of them said: "Hey, do not hit!"
This, in turn, easily be mistaken for another favor, and were advised not to stop the one they may believe that they themselves have been as big bad guys.
Then, to mediate a good time to what is it?
① If both sides sit in situ, when one of them suddenly raised his voice to stand up when;
② If the parties are standing in situ, in which a sudden step forward, when the notice is about the use of force.
This time, the men immediately and put an end to notice the use of force, and not be in favor of any party. The problem is, there is no fighting experience, it is difficult to distinguish between such a force. Thus, the two sides on the confrontation, and has already begun in the scuffle when approached to mediate, the possibility of挨揍quite large. Precisely because of this, the onlookers and the general was not easily approached to mediate.
If you can not open the two sides before the use of force, to mediate the essentials, must be of the following methods.
People have to mediate挨揍consciousness, and then forcibly squeeze himself between the two men. At the same time, as far as possible domineering shouted out: "stop!" This could be the "池鱼之殃" to minimize the lowest level.
Remember: Do not be completely avoided in order to "池鱼之殃" and wait until the fighting ended when approached to mediate, to do so on would be too cruel.
While the winner may be a different matter, at least to bear the defeat of those who think about flesh pain tolerance, timeliness is critical juncture out to be a reconciliation, in order to defeat those who play the role of God the ambulance, it would be an act of boundless beneficence.
As seen in together, to see someone else fights, fighting, even if we can control and no matter,坐山观虎斗like peep show to see if it too had no conscience. What’s more, you go to mediate, mediation, so that quarrels and fights both sides can feel there is a ray of warmth: not everyone is oblivious to all this, ruthless.
One thing is certain: If you move a knife去劝aircraft gun, then you will in all likelihood "wounded in action." Smooth as a person, if not help to circle the field, then play "Chuan" find someone to help.
2. Qiao tongue dead knots untied
Most of the disputes in the use of force is not so exciting, are generally text drama. Such as family disputes, disputes between relatives and friends, colleagues of disputes between the disputes between neighbors, disputes between strangers. If you do not be resolved in a timely manner, no doubt will affect the mutual relations and social stability and unity. So grasp the mediation of disputes and resolve contradictions in the language of art is very important. Smooth things over many cases articulate their implementation.
①动真情, round in well-advised in with Granville.
Chen conflict with a movie star, turned away. Chen砸门wanted to relieve the anger in my heart. Chen, an old police officer said: "The good brother, your heart I can understand, we know that you are her husband, so this is your home. But if you create here what an unpleasant, it will let other people have excuses, there is another point, a place of refuge the Spring Festival holiday, once created an unpleasant, we should have called other police officers, which you say there is no home? Which one do not want to have a reunion years? you can think twice. "
The language of the old police seemingly simple, yet full of Chen’s understanding of the situation, "This is your home" This is just a word, both expressed their deep sympathy for Chen, but also contains a certain Star accused of inappropriate behavior. At the same time, the old police, then also full of concern for his colleagues, that is, if Chen created unpleasant things is likely to make his comrades had bad Spring Festival. It is obvious that the language of the old police also full of a "Do not do illegal things" means. It is the old police this financial situation in the language of the rationale caused Chen’s thinking, so that Chen gave up impulsive behavior, which subsided this may violate the law disputes.
② eliminate misunderstanding, something good to discuss.
Some of the disputes because of misunderstandings caused by, so as long as that line from, we can eliminate misunderstandings and resolve contradictions. Guangzhou City and the town with several pipe IPPF cadres to work in private pharmacies check ~ family planning work. Pharmacy owner kicked up a row, led to mass hundreds of onlookers. At this time, party secretary of the town rushed to the pharmacy. He pharmacy boss said: "Let’s discuss something good, noise can not solve the problem. Checks family planning work, it is the provisions of the city, you talk about the situation clearly, with our work. If you have difficulties, they do not violate the policy , we can help you to solve. "pharmacy owner listened, I thought I misunderstood the town cadres malicious, suddenly deflated, and recognizing their own mistakes, that tie in with the work, to undergo an examination. This contradiction is resolved.
③ Miao apologize to an amicable settlement.
Some conflicts or disputes on both sides desire to mediate, but the moment can not find the steps. Mediators can skillfully apologize on behalf of one party to another, thus giving rise to the other party moved to apologize and take the initiative to offer each other. This would effectively contribute to reconciliation between the two parties. Liang Xiaosheng famous writer in his book said such a thing, and his mother and neighbors and Lu Lu Auntie Auntie’s son the size of the problem occurred because of land disputes, he understood the situation, first of all criticized the mother, Lu pointed out that his wife and In the window the size of the house then things can be understood, as his family, and no place to live. Liang Lu and then to his wife at home for his mother said something to apologize and good language.卢叔, Lu Liang Xiaosheng, then listened to his wife, one pulling one of his hands very emotionally said: "can not blame your mother, can not blame your mother." Beam size to the mother to admit that he does not quarrel with is the lack of respect for Liang mother’s performance. In this way I am afraid the two mutual understanding and good unabated.
④ to find the balance, each playing 30 strokes of the cane
Some of the disputes as a result of complex causes, or a long time, so the facilitator to the specific circumstances of a specific analysis, the dialectical articulation of reasoning, so that they have a sense of identity, to reach a consensus in order to settle the dispute. Guangzhou City and the town of the same village with the garrison on land ownership disputes occur, the years have not resolved. They were invited to the town party secretary. Party secretary in the full understanding of the situation based on his views, he said: "to resolve the issue of land disputes, we have to set the principles of faith, that is, respect history and face reality, mutual understanding and mutual accommodation. Consultations. Land by force draw a red line, the unit has already built a wall, in the use of force, although the troops were not compensation, but they are not yet received land use certificates, but the local to the cardinal principles in mind, the overall situation, to support the forces. draw a red line, but the troops did not use, nor requisition, villagers still new land, in the final of all places. there is no designated red line, but has been used by the forces of land for military facilities are still under the force; use of military facilities for the land if the force change the purpose, can be recovered, you can use the joint development. "Both sides accepted the secretary’s views, quickly reached an agreement. Outstanding issues of land ownership dispute is finally resolved.
⑤生智urgency, "bite the text" ride height.
In a train, a woman selling ice cream, first called the Second angle five-block, the latter also known as five cents a piece. A woman to buy ice cream, said: "in front of the Second Kakugo sell, sell back the Pentagon, there is such a business it?" The vendor said: "This is called a penny goods, how can the Second and the Kakugo Compared to the Pentagon, my ice-cream authentic goods. "Provisional a meeting of the sentence:" Tiger of the Palestinian-qing (Northeast words "stupid" means). "face of women to buy ice-cream"唰"to the dark negative loudly said: "This is how you say? you say who was responsible for" the Palestinian QING tiger "of?" All of a sudden傻了眼seller, the buyer called the more interesting talks, a war about to break out. At this time struck a passenger, said: "The eldest sister, she said that the ice-cream" bitterness "to the Palestinian-ching, and is not to say that you" Tiger Palestinian Betty, "the." Vendor also echo said: "I am talking about ice cream, not to say that you, I am sorry I did not say clearly. "next to people who also said:" Just now, she said "bitter" instead of "tiger". "buyers that they would gradually become cloudy to sunny, a sunny face again:" Oh, I want to deaf ears, how playing the bifurcated, I am sorry! "the seller to圆场who smiled gratefully and leave the territory.
⑥ Qiao Table heart, humor and arms.
A unit of a pair of middle-aged couple, married nearly 10 years ~ straight good relations between the two sides. But more recently, in the issue of social entertainment, the two conflicts have taken place, no one who说服不了. From the four corners to a quarrel and then scolding, much uproar in town, facing the breakup of a serious crisis. In the leadership and concern for friends and family, under the persuasion and persuasion, they finally sit down calmly to each other "pledge one’s allegiance," but no one wants to open "guilty plea", the man finally opened the first of four, said: "We are in the struggle Seeking unity, survival and development, today, to get into such a peaceful democracy, a new phase of consultation is the result of our joint efforts, it did not come easily ah! "is concise, short love words long. Woman’s potential to take over the thread of her conversation also said: "Yes ah! Precisely because it is not easy to come by, so we should treasure this excellent situation of stability and unity!" Husband and wife is to put all this in, Yizhuang also harmonic, fun dialogue each paid a heart, understanding, and resolve the contradictions, make up.
3. "圆场" seven common skills
In social activities, can be provided in a timely manner an appropriate level, is the avoidance of loss of face is one of the major principles圆场. However, what steps
Steam上有什么免费又好玩的游戏
steam上精彩的大作数不胜数，免费又好玩的佳作也是极其的多，下面我就简单介绍几款吧
WARFRAME（星际战甲）
warframe（国服名为星际战甲）具有相当爽快的打击感，同时还具有华丽的连招，跑酷般的移动，能够给你最畅快的动作游戏体验。
在这里，还可以满足你对刷图的一切想法，无论你是想变强还是变美，都可以肝出来，另外游戏电影级的画面也是相当令人惊叹，可以说是长期霸榜的免费佳作之一。
总而言之，游戏不仅有着精美的画质，爽快的战斗，关键是还有着惊人的优化，再普通的配置也可以流畅玩，steam上几千小时的大神比比皆是，有兴趣的话，赶紧去看看吧。
dota2
相信这个游戏就不用过多介绍了，虽然在玩家数量上比不上LOL ，不过这并不妨碍它是MOBA游戏的神作，游戏的画面相当不错，画风也是相当养眼，不过稍显复杂的游戏机制，可能会阻碍一大批玩家入坑，如果你玩腻了LOL ，不妨来这试试吧
军团要塞2（Team Fortress 2）
历来评价最高的免费游戏之一，可以说是守望先锋的免费版，不过它才是守望先锋的鼻祖，
游戏具有九种不同的兵种，各自都具备不同的作战能力和性格，无论你是哪一种玩家，总会有一个角色适合你。另外游戏还具有夺旗，控制点，竞技场等模式，可以给你带来不同的乐趣，总而言之，绝对的佳作。
战争仪式（Battlerite）
战争仪式不同于传统5V5的MOBA游戏，而是采用的3V3的竞技模式，每一场游戏只有6名玩家作战，可以说是尽可能的将MOBA游戏精简为了纯PVP的乱斗竞技场模式。
游戏的机制比较简单，因此具有比较快捷的游戏节奏，此外它还具有极其带感的战斗动画、音效，结实的打击感，以及精准、巧妙的操作，如果你厌倦了一成不变的MOBA，不妨试试这个。
另外，这个游戏已经被腾讯代理，不久的将来我们应该就能玩到国服的版本了，大家可以先行尝试一下。
未转变者(unturned)
这是一款沙盒像素风格的生存类型游戏,，玩家们在游戏中需要建设和发展自己的营地,从而应对僵尸大军和其他玩家的侵袭,保证自己的生存。
游戏的画面也许不为很多玩家喜欢，但是游戏内容却非常的精彩，另外游戏的体积很少，配置要求也不高，有兴趣的朋友可以关注一下。
战舰世界（World of Warships）
战舰世界是一款免费的大海战类游戏，里面包括了200多艘历史著名战舰，无论你是喜欢战列舰的巨大舰炮、驱逐舰的潜行、巡洋舰的冲锋、以及航空母舰铺天盖地的战机群，战舰世界都可以满足你，
如果你是个战争游戏爱好者的话，一定不要错过，另外，这个游戏有国服，喜欢的玩家可以了解一下。
Art of War: Red Tides（战争艺术）
这是一款快节奏的团队实时竞技游戏。你可以从人、神、妖三个种族中挑选兵种组成你的部队，在1v1或3v3的战斗中，运用巧妙的出兵策略和强大的指挥官技能，打爆敌方基地，从而取得胜利。
游戏的规则很简单但是变化丰富，战斗场面也还颇为有趣，另外，这是一个国产游戏同时还具有安卓版本，感兴趣的朋友可以下载尝试一下
脏弹（Dirty Bomb）
这是一个快节奏的第一人称射击游戏，在紧张快速的游戏中，你绝对不能松懈半刻，因为游戏不会提供任何支援，事实上还可能往你口里射一枪。
游戏具有目标和计时两种模式，另外游戏中还具有20名能力优越的雇佣兵，每一名都有自己专有的能力、属性。偶尔还会有一些有趣的奚落语句。总而言之，这是一个相当有趣的免费射击游戏。
地狱已满
如果你喜欢生存类型的游戏，那么这绝对是不能错过的佳作，不过这可不是一般的打丧尸游戏，在这里你可要格外小心，丧尸几口就能让你丧命，因此本作格外强调团队合作，只有同伴相互协作，合理分配资源，你们才有可能逃出生天。
总而言之，这里没有无双，没有爽快的突突突，一切都是为了生存。
War Thunder(战争雷霆）
这是一个相当激烈壮观的战争游戏，里面包括了大量的二战和朝鲜战争时期的载具，在玩游戏的同时，还可以回顾历史。
另外在这个游戏中，数量庞大的玩家们可以共同在一个场景中游戏，海陆一起上演逼真激烈的战斗，尽情享受大战场下战斗的快感，
PlanetSide 2（行星边际2）
这是一款多人在线FPS游戏，在火力全开的星际大战中，玩家们可以参与各种激烈的战斗任务，同时能够控制步兵，飞行器和地面载具来为自己的帝国争夺关键地域和稀有资源，
更加关键一点是，在这里，你可以体会到战场上千人冲锋的快感，这是目前没有几个游戏可以做到的，遗憾的是，这游戏目前没有汉化，同时需要加速器，有兴趣的朋友可以了解一下。
Robocraft
在这款游戏中，玩家们可以私人定制自己的机器人战斗车，无论是上天还是人地都取决于你自己的喜好，喷气汽车、坦克、飞行战舰、直升机、无人机应有尽有，与AI和玩家斗其乐无穷，总之，发挥你的想象，秀出你的风采。
当然，steam上好玩的免费佳作还有很多，欢迎大家在评论区补充，我们一起来完善这份榜单。
steam上有哪些在线联机值得玩的游戏
STEAM上好游戏有很多的呀，联机的更是扎堆，例举的话根本举不过来好吧。
不过小球球想给各位安利一款游戏——《消逝的光芒》。
这游戏是带着丧失题材的壳，完完全全一个做沙盒的心啊。
游戏是14年出来的了，很老对吧，但别人项目组还在踏踏实实的运营，就冲这态度就很棒了。
同时，在细节方面做得很赞，随意举个例子吧，你走在路上看到一个汽车和丧失相撞，然后丧失击飞撞到尖锐物体上，会直接死去。
你闲逛的时候，也能看到一些丧失不小心摔倒了，什么头啊，手啊，本身与肢体连接比较脆弱的地方也直接给摔断了。
但说他是沙盒好像又不严谨，毕竟是类似求生之路那样的游戏啊喂，所以整个游戏会显得节奏很奇怪，适应的玩家喜欢得不行，不喜欢的玩家疯狂吐槽。
但游戏能活到现在，还活得不错，起码还是能说明不少的问题。
当然了，《消逝的光芒》最有趣的点还是题主的提问，那就是联机。
联机让这个游戏的生命力被延续了很长时间，可以这么说，游戏联机可以叫3A大作，不联机只能叫一般恐怖游戏。
联机后，和朋友一起逃避丧尸的追杀或者围剿丧尸，期间都存在非常欢愉的游戏感，因为游戏里道具很多，你甚至还可以选择坑队友。
当然游戏的氛围更是没得说，尤其是夜晚，结合真实镜头的晃动（晕3D的慎入），丧尸的恐怖是完完全全的暴露了出来，白天还好，夜晚的代入感是超强的。
总体而言，这款游戏，有盗版，甚至小球球也有资源，但这游戏盗版不联机小球球认为下载还浪费时间啦，一定要去steam试试联机玩，才能把这款游戏的魅力完全体会出来。
当然，游戏和其他3A大作比，劝退的因素还有很多，客观而言比不上老滚，巫师3之类的游戏，建议打折的时候入吧，全价还是算了。
